Keep a tight rein on my tongue. How I say something counts for far more than what I say.
Be careful what I promise to others If I intend to make promises, I had better be prepared to keep them, no matter what the cost. The easiest way to lose the respect of others is by guaranteeing things that I am either unable or unwilling to deliver.
Be kind and encouraging to others. Never let an opportunity to show kindness or encouragement to others to pass you by. Praise good work, regardless of who did it.
Take an interest in other people. Learn about others' interests, their homes and families, and even their problems. Gaining the confidence of fellow workers is made much easier when I demonstrate that I have a caring attitude. When others are joyful, rejoice with them; when troubled or in mourning, be sympathetic.
Be cheerful. We all carry a load of some sort, and although the old saying "misery loves company" is still widely held up as truth, keep in mind that making others miserable is truly a disservice. Don't dwell on my minor aches and pains and small disappointments. Maintaining a cheerful attitude at all times will not only make others more comfortable in my presence
Keep an open mind. Don't allow me to get into arguments. Discuss things with people rather than argue. Being disagreeable is likely to put others off; they will much prefer to deal with those who have a calm and reasoned approach. When confronted with a situation that you either disapprove of, or dislike, keep this in mind: it is the mark of a superior mind that can disagree without being disagreeable.
Be mindful of only my own vices and virtues. Refuse to discuss others' vices or problems. Don't allow gossip to rule my life. Tearing down another to prop yourself up is an extraordinary waste of time; furthermore, it can be very destructive.
Be careful of others' feelings. Humor at another's expense is rarely worth the trouble. Not only that, the hurt and pain felt by that person will often come when least expected. Take into account another person's feelings before you poke fun.
Pay no attention to what others say about me. Remember, the person making snide or rude comments about me may not be well informed. Live in such a way that what is said about me cannot be taken to heart. Let my own actions determine how others see me, and that they will not believe the negative things said.
Don't worry about accolades and credit which is due me. I will do my best...because it's the best I can do. Concerning myself about how much credit I receive will only burden me with more stress. Let others see my work ethic, and I will be able to take pride and pleasure in a job well done
A special THANK YOU to my friend Johnny Munoz for these great 2009 resolutions.
